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What if one book could change the way you see life, relationships, money, and your future?: Life building books

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I’ve put together a collection of books written to challenge your thinking, open your mind, and help you make better decisions. From relationships and marriage to personal growth, purpose and financial freedom — there’s something here for you. Don’t just scroll past. Discover the books, choose the one that speaks to you, and start reading. Your next life-changing idea might be just one page away. ๐Ÿ”— Click the links to explore  Getting It Right Before "I Do": How Temperament, Compatibility, and Emotional Intelligence Help You Choose the Right Life Partner Before you say "I do," make sure you're saying it to the right person—for the right reasons. Why do so many relationships that begin with love end in disappointment? Why do couples who genuinely care for each other still struggle with communication, conflict, and unmet expectations? In Getting It Right Before "I Do," relationship mentor and counselor Padre-pio Benjamin Akor provides a practical and ins...

YOWICAN Mpape Chapter Inaugurates New Executive Council, Charges Leaders to Promote Christian Unity

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By Padre-Pio Benjamin Akor    The Youth Wing of the Christian Association of Nigeria (YOWICAN), Mpape Chapter, officially inaugurated its newly elected Executive Council on Sunday, July 12, 2026, during the 10:00 a.m. Holy Mass at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, Area 1, Mpape, Abuja. The colourful inauguration ceremony brought together Christian leaders, clergy, youth representatives, and members of various church denominations within the Mpape Chapter of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), reaffirming the shared commitment to Christian unity and youth leadership. Welcoming the congregation and the newly elected executives, the Vice Chairman of CAN Mpape Chapter, Catechist Linus Ekweme, who also serves as the Resident Catechist of St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, expressed gratitude to God for the successful gathering.  He appreciated the leadership of CAN Mpape Chapter for giving the church the privilege of hosting the inauguration ceremony.  Cate...

EGOBAFF, Guards Brigade Illuminate Learning at Army Children School Maitama with 15KVA Solar Power Project By Padre-pio Benjamin Akor

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In a remarkable demonstration of corporate social responsibility, alumni commitment, and strategic partnership, the Ex-Gowon Barracks Family Forum (EGOBAFF) has successfully commissioned a 15KVA Solar Power System for the Computer Laboratory and Library of Army Children School, Maitama, Abuja . The project, which marks another milestone in educational development within the military community, was made possible through the generous sponsorship of the Commander, Guards Brigade Abuja, Brigadier General A.O. Orasanya , in collaboration with EGOBAFF , the alumni association of former pupils and members of the Gowon Barracks community. The commissioning ceremony attracted key stakeholders from the education and military sectors, underscoring the importance of collaborative efforts in advancing quality education. The event was graced by the FCT Education Secretary , Dr (Mrs) Mariam Ibrahim BabaKarshi who was humbly represented by Mal Saliyu Jibril alongside EGOBAFF BOARD OF TRUSTEES sch...

National Assembly Passes Bill Establishing Nigerian Forest Security Service (NFSS) By Padre-Pio Benjamin Akor

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Abuja — The National Assembly has passed the long-awaited Nigeria Hunters and Forest Security Service (NHFSS) Bill, a landmark legislation designed to transform Nigeria’s forest protection framework into a formal national security institution, now to be known as the Nigerian Forest Security Service (NFSS). The Bill, which awaits presidential assent , seeks to legalize and regulate the operations of forest-based security personnel across the country. It aims to curb rampant forest crimes, protect rural communities, and strengthen national security through coordinated forest surveillance and intelligence gathering. Mission and Mandate The NFSS will operate under the supervision of the Federal Ministry of Environment , working in close coordination with agencies such as the Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) , Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC), and Nigeria Police Force. The Immigration and Prisons Services Board established under the Immigration and Prisons Services Board ...

10 Ways People Say “I Love You” — Without Ever Saying It

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Some people don’t say “I love you.” They just show it quietly, deeply, and in ways the world might miss. They’re the kind who love in acts, not announcements. The kind who make you feel seen even when they never say a word. Here’s how to know when love is there, even when it’s silent: 1. They Remember the Little Things Your favorite snack. The song that makes you cry. The way you like your tea. They don’t take notes, they just care. 2. They Check In “For No Reason” A random text that says, “Did you eat?” or “Get home safe.” That’s not small talk that’s love disguised as concern. 3. They Go Out of Their Way — Literally They’ll drive across town, stay up late, skip a plan… just to make your day smoother. They don’t call it love. They call it “no problem.” 4. They’re Comfortable Doing Nothing With You You sit together, phones down, no words, and it’s still peaceful. That silence ? It’s not empty. It’s full of connection. 5. They Feel Your Mood Before You Say a Word You walk in heavy, the...

Why You Love a Person with a “Smelling” Personality

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We all know that person. Sweet face, nice talk, but inside? Attitude smelling like week-old fish. And yet… you still love them. Still defend them. Still keep them close. Here, “smelling” isn’t about perfume or body odor, it’s about a bad, unpleasant personality that makes people avoid them, but you? You’re still there. Why? Let’s break it down. 1️⃣ You Fell in Love Before the Smell Started Sometimes you met them in their “ honeymoon mode ”, sweet, generous, and pretending to be angels. Then time passed, and the true side started showing. But by then, you’re already emotionally locked in . 2️⃣ The Good Days Are Addictive They might ruin four days out of the week, but those three good days? They’re so good that you keep chasing them. You hope the sweetness will come back permanently, so you endure the bitterness. 3️⃣ You Think You Can Change Them You believe your love, patience, or sacrifices will turn them into better people. Truth? Unless they want to change, you will only...

๐Ÿ”Ÿ Things You Naturally Stop Explaining Once You Become Emotionally Mature, Says Psychology

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By Padre-Pio Benjamin Akor | August 28, 2025, 9:15 am For years, I found myself constantly justifying my actions to others. It felt like I was forever on the defensive, always explaining myself. But as I grew older and gained emotional maturity , I realized something profound: we naturally stop explaining certain things when we truly understand and accept ourselves. It’s not arrogance. It’s not pride. It’s the peace that comes from knowing who you are and being okay with it. So, let’s explore the 10 things you stop explaining once you become emotionally mature, according to psychology. 1) Your life choices I once felt pressured to justify every decision, career, hobbies, or even spiritual practices. But emotional maturity brings self-assurance. ๐Ÿ‘‰ You learn that your choices are yours alone . They are not up for debate, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for living authentically. 2) Your need for alone time Society often glorifies constant socializing, but solitude is ...