What if one book could change the way you see life, relationships, money, and your future?: Life building books
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From relationships and marriage to personal growth, purpose and financial freedom — there’s something here for you.
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Getting It Right Before "I Do": How Temperament, Compatibility, and Emotional Intelligence Help You Choose the Right Life Partner
Before you say "I do," make sure you're saying it to the right person—for the right reasons.
Why do so many relationships that begin with love end in disappointment? Why do couples who genuinely care for each other still struggle with communication, conflict, and unmet expectations?
In Getting It Right Before "I Do," relationship mentor and counselor Padre-pio Benjamin Akor provides a practical and insightful guide to one of the most overlooked aspects of successful relationships: understanding yourself and your partner through temperament.
Drawing from classic temperament theory, relationship counseling, emotional intelligence, and real-life observations, this book helps readers discover how personality influences communication, conflict resolution, emotional needs, financial habits, parenting styles, and long-term compatibility.
Inside this comprehensive guide, you'll discover:
Why many relationship problems begin before marriage.
How to identify your dominant temperament and its strengths and weaknesses.
The four classic temperaments and their common blends.
Which temperament combinations naturally complement one another.
Hidden red flags that often go unnoticed during courtship.
Why love alone is not enough for a lasting marriage.
Practical tools for improving communication, resolving conflict, and building emotional intimacy.
Premarital questions every couple should answer before saying "I do."
Self-assessment exercises, compatibility checklists, and guided workbook activities.
Whether you are single, dating, engaged, preparing for marriage, or mentoring others, this book offers timeless wisdom and practical strategies to help you make informed relationship decisions and build a marriage that lasts.
The quality of your marriage tomorrow begins with the choices you make today. Get it right before "I do.
How to Build Multiple Streams of Income: A Practical Guide to Creating Financial Security, Growing Wealth, and Achieving Financial Freedom
What would happen if your financial future did not depend on just one source of income?
In a world of rising costs, economic uncertainty, changing employment patterns, and rapid technological advancement, depending entirely on one salary or one business can leave you financially vulnerable. How to Build Multiple Streams of Income provides a practical roadmap for creating additional sources of income, building wealth, and working toward genuine financial freedom.
This book explores how ordinary people can turn their skills, knowledge, experience, creativity, and available resources into income-producing opportunities. You do not need to be wealthy to begin. You need the willingness to learn, take action, create value, and remain consistent.
Inside this practical guide, you will discover how to:
Develop the mindset and habits required for long-term wealth creation
Identify your skills and turn them into profitable income opportunities
Build income through freelancing and the digital economy
Make money online through legitimate and sustainable business models
Create and sell digital products
Use platforms such as Selar to build an online business
Explore affiliate marketing and content creation
Publish books through Amazon Kindle Direct Publishing
Understand real estate as a long-term wealth-building opportunity
Diversify your income and reduce dependence on a single source
Turn active income into assets that can generate value over time
This book does not promise overnight wealth or effortless money. Instead, it presents a realistic approach built around knowledge, discipline, value creation, diversification, continuous learning, and consistent action.
Whether you are an employee looking for additional income, an entrepreneur seeking to diversify your earnings, a young person preparing for the future, a professional hoping to monetize your expertise, or someone determined to achieve greater financial independence, this book will help you identify opportunities and develop a strategy for moving forward.
Your salary can pay your bills. Your skills can create opportunities. Your assets can build your wealth.
The journey toward financial freedom does not begin with having everything figured out. It begins with understanding what you have, identifying what you can create, and taking the first practical step.
Your financial future does not have to depend on one paycheck. Start building your multiple streams of income today.
The Women of Our Mothers Are Not the Women of Our Sisters: Redefining African Marriage in a Changing World
The women of our mothers are not the women of our sisters, and pretending otherwise is costing African marriages their future. Across Africa and the diaspora, marriage is under pressure. Divorce rates are rising, gender tensions are intensifying, and many homes exist in quiet frustration rather than shared fulfillment. Older generations blame modern women. Younger generations reject outdated expectations. In the middle stands a marriage institution struggling to adapt. In The Women of Our Mothers Are Not the Women of Our Sisters: Redefining African Marriage in a Changing World, Padre-Pio Benjamin Akor offers a bold, balanced, and deeply reflective examination of what has changed and what must change for marriage to survive. This book moves beyond emotional arguments and gender wars. Drawing from psychology, philosophy, biblical insight, African cultural traditions, and contemporary marriage research, it explores:
Why our mothers endured marriages built on survival, silence, and limited choice
Why modern women resist the same patterns—and what that resistance truly means
How feminism, independence, and education have reshaped African marriage
The crisis of masculinity and leadership in a changing marriage economy
The difference between tolerance and self-respect in healthy relationships
How independence and intimacy can coexist without rivalry
What a balanced African home looks like in today’s world
A practical, integrated way forward for men, women, families, and faith communities.
This is not a rejection of African culture. It is a call to renew it wisely. This book honors the strength of our mothers without romanticizing their suffering. It affirms the aspirations of modern women without excusing irresponsibility. It challenges men to evolve leadership beyond control into presence, accountability, and purpose. Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, counseling couples, or shaping conversations about family and society, this book provides clarity, depth, and direction. Marriage does not need to disappear. It needs to mature. If you are ready to stop comparing generations and start building sustainable, dignified, and emotionally healthy African homes, this book is for you.
Marriage Is Not for Everybody: Choice, Purpose, and the Freedom to Live Authentically
Marriage is often presented as a universal milestone—an expectation tied to maturity, success, and fulfillment. But is marriage truly meant for everyone? Marriage Is Not for Everybody invites readers to examine one of society’s most deeply rooted assumptions with honesty, wisdom, and compassion. Rather than arguing against marriage, this book explores the overlooked truth that fulfillment, purpose, and dignity are not dependent on marital status. Drawing from biblical reflections, psychological insights, philosophical thought, and real-life social experiences, the book challenges pressure-driven decisions and encourages intentional living. It affirms that singleness, alternative life paths, and delayed marriage can be meaningful, responsible, and spiritually grounded choices. Inside this book, readers will discover:
Why marriage is a personal calling, not a universal obligation
How social and cultural pressure influences life decisions
The emotional and financial realities often overlooked in marriage conversations
Why marriage alone does not guarantee happiness or fulfillment
How to redefine success, purpose, and identity beyond societal expectations
Practical reflections to help readers align life choices with personal values Written with balance and sensitivity.
This book does not promote rebellion, isolation, or hostility toward marriage. Instead, it promotes discernment, self-awareness, and freedom of choice, recognizing that different people flourish under different life structures. Whether you are single, married, questioning, or simply seeking clarity, Marriage Is Not for Everybody offers thoughtful perspectives to help you live authentically, responsibly, and with inner peace
Marriage Is Not for Everybody: Choice, Purpose, and the Freedom to Live Authentically (Amazon)
Marriage Is Not for Everybody: Choice, Purpose, and the Freedom to Live Authentically(Selar)
Women Are Not Wired to Love: Biblical and Psychological Truths About Love, Leadership, Submission, and Balance in Relationships
The Foundation of a Successful Relationship explores the timeless principles that sustain love, respect, and balance between a man and a woman. Drawing from biblical teachings, psychology, and natural gender dynamics, this book presents a clear and thought-provoking perspective on complementary roles in relationships.
In a world where relationship values are increasingly blurred, this book reminds readers that harmony is built when men lead with love and women respond with respect, submission, and faithfulness, not as oppression, but as mutual cooperation.
Through 10 insightful facts, the author explains:
Why love thrives when men take responsibility for leadership
How respect and submission strengthen emotional connection
What happens when roles are neglected or reversed
The importance of balance, trust, and shared responsibility
How both traditional and modern relationships can flourish when roles are understood
This book does not promote domination or inequality. Instead, it emphasizes mutual commitment, accountability, and purposeful love. Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married, this book offers practical wisdom for building relationships that last.
If you desire a relationship rooted in love, respect, faith, and balance, this book is a must-read
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