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I’ve put together a collection of books written to challenge your thinking, open your mind, and help you make better decisions. From relationships and marriage to personal growth, purpose and financial freedom — there’s something here for you. Don’t just scroll past. Discover the books, choose the one that speaks to you, and start reading. Your next life-changing idea might be just one page away. 🔗 Click the links to explore  Getting It Right Before "I Do": How Temperament, Compatibility, and Emotional Intelligence Help You Choose the Right Life Partner Before you say "I do," make sure you're saying it to the right person—for the right reasons. Why do so many relationships that begin with love end in disappointment? Why do couples who genuinely care for each other still struggle with communication, conflict, and unmet expectations? In Getting It Right Before "I Do," relationship mentor and counselor Padre-pio Benjamin Akor provides a practical and ins...

By Padre-Pio Benjamin Akor    The Youth Wing of the Christian Association of Nigeria (YOWICAN), Mpape Chapter, officially inaugurated its newly elected Executive Council on Sunday, July 12, 2026, during the 10:00 a.m. Holy Mass at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, Area 1, Mpape, Abuja. The colourful inauguration ceremony brought together Christian leaders, clergy, youth representatives, and members of various church denominations within the Mpape Chapter of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), reaffirming the shared commitment to Christian unity and youth leadership. Welcoming the congregation and the newly elected executives, the Vice Chairman of CAN Mpape Chapter, Catechist Linus Ekweme, who also serves as the Resident Catechist of St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, expressed gratitude to God for the successful gathering.  He appreciated the leadership of CAN Mpape Chapter for giving the church the privilege of hosting the inauguration ceremony.  Cate...

In a remarkable demonstration of corporate social responsibility, alumni commitment, and strategic partnership, the Ex-Gowon Barracks Family Forum (EGOBAFF) has successfully commissioned a 15KVA Solar Power System for the Computer Laboratory and Library of Army Children School, Maitama, Abuja . The project, which marks another milestone in educational development within the military community, was made possible through the generous sponsorship of the Commander, Guards Brigade Abuja, Brigadier General A.O. Orasanya , in collaboration with EGOBAFF , the alumni association of former pupils and members of the Gowon Barracks community. The commissioning ceremony attracted key stakeholders from the education and military sectors, underscoring the importance of collaborative efforts in advancing quality education. The event was graced by the FCT Education Secretary , Dr (Mrs) Mariam Ibrahim BabaKarshi who was humbly represented by Mal Saliyu Jibril alongside EGOBAFF BOARD OF TRUSTEES sch...

Abuja — The National Assembly has passed the long-awaited Nigeria Hunters and Forest Security Service (NHFSS) Bill, a landmark legislation designed to transform Nigeria’s forest protection framework into a formal national security institution, now to be known as the Nigerian Forest Security Service (NFSS). The Bill, which awaits presidential assent , seeks to legalize and regulate the operations of forest-based security personnel across the country. It aims to curb rampant forest crimes, protect rural communities, and strengthen national security through coordinated forest surveillance and intelligence gathering. Mission and Mandate The NFSS will operate under the supervision of the Federal Ministry of Environment , working in close coordination with agencies such as the Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) , Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC), and Nigeria Police Force. The Immigration and Prisons Services Board established under the Immigration and Prisons Services Board ...

Some people don’t say “I love you.” They just show it quietly, deeply, and in ways the world might miss. They’re the kind who love in acts, not announcements. The kind who make you feel seen even when they never say a word. Here’s how to know when love is there, even when it’s silent: 1. They Remember the Little Things Your favorite snack. The song that makes you cry. The way you like your tea. They don’t take notes, they just care. 2. They Check In “For No Reason” A random text that says, “Did you eat?” or “Get home safe.” That’s not small talk that’s love disguised as concern. 3. They Go Out of Their Way — Literally They’ll drive across town, stay up late, skip a plan… just to make your day smoother. They don’t call it love. They call it “no problem.” 4. They’re Comfortable Doing Nothing With You You sit together, phones down, no words, and it’s still peaceful. That silence ? It’s not empty. It’s full of connection. 5. They Feel Your Mood Before You Say a Word You walk in heavy, the...

We all know that person. Sweet face, nice talk, but inside? Attitude smelling like week-old fish. And yet… you still love them. Still defend them. Still keep them close. Here, “smelling” isn’t about perfume or body odor, it’s about a bad, unpleasant personality that makes people avoid them, but you? You’re still there. Why? Let’s break it down. 1️⃣ You Fell in Love Before the Smell Started Sometimes you met them in their “ honeymoon mode ”, sweet, generous, and pretending to be angels. Then time passed, and the true side started showing. But by then, you’re already emotionally locked in . 2️⃣ The Good Days Are Addictive They might ruin four days out of the week, but those three good days? They’re so good that you keep chasing them. You hope the sweetness will come back permanently, so you endure the bitterness. 3️⃣ You Think You Can Change Them You believe your love, patience, or sacrifices will turn them into better people. Truth? Unless they want to change, you will only...

By Padre-Pio Benjamin Akor | August 28, 2025, 9:15 am For years, I found myself constantly justifying my actions to others. It felt like I was forever on the defensive, always explaining myself. But as I grew older and gained emotional maturity , I realized something profound: we naturally stop explaining certain things when we truly understand and accept ourselves. It’s not arrogance. It’s not pride. It’s the peace that comes from knowing who you are and being okay with it. So, let’s explore the 10 things you stop explaining once you become emotionally mature, according to psychology. 1) Your life choices I once felt pressured to justify every decision, career, hobbies, or even spiritual practices. But emotional maturity brings self-assurance. 👉 You learn that your choices are yours alone . They are not up for debate, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for living authentically. 2) Your need for alone time Society often glorifies constant socializing, but solitude is ...

Most people think emotional control is about suppressing feelings. But true control is about knowing when to speak and when silence is the best answer . Silence is not weakness. Silence is not ignorance. Silence is power. Some people lose opportunities, respect, and even relationships because they could not control their tongue. Yet, the one who has mastered silence at the right time stands out as rare. Let’s look at 8 key moments where staying silent shows that you are operating on a higher level of wisdom and emotional control with examples you’ll easily relate to. 1. When Someone Insults You Words are powerful. When someone insults you, your first instinct may be to fight back. But silence in that moment shows restraint . 📌 Example: At work, a colleague mocks your idea during a meeting. If you fire back, you create an unnecessary conflict. But if you remain silent, others often notice the insult for what it is, and your silence makes the attacker look smaller. 👉 Silence ...

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Gwagwalada , FCT – August 02, 2025 The Nigerian Forest Security Service ( NFSS ) has officially commenced a comprehensive zonal training program for its North-Central regional commands at the Government Secondary School (GSS), Gwagwalada, with over 10,000 foresters from across the region in attendance. The four-day training, holding from July 31st to August 3rd, is themed: > " Strengthening Forest Security Through Inter-Agency Collaboration and Intelligence Sharing." The event is hosted by the FCT Command, bringing together NFSS operatives from Kwara , Kogi, Nassarawa and Niger States, in a strategic move to reinforce synergy in intelligence gathering and joint forest operations. The opening day witnessed the arrival of participants and the formal introduction of zonal leaders and stakeholders. The training was flagged off with high-level briefings from resource persons drawn from the Department of State Security ( DSS ) and the Nigeria Police Force , who engaged partici...

The Nigerian Forest Security Service (NFSS) is not a constitutionally recognized paramilitary organization like the Nigerian Police Force or Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps . However, there have been efforts, both by state governments and non-federal actors, to establish forest guards or rangers to combat banditry , illegal logging , and environmental degradation , especially in northern and middle-belt regions . The NFSS was initially formed in 2021 as the Nigerian Hunters & Forest Security Service and was renamed to NFSS in late 2024, as announced by its Commander General, Dr. Wole Joshua Osatimehin . A pending bill before the National Assembly aims to formally integrate traditional hunter groups into a unified federal forest security force; the bill had passed both chambers by April 2025 and is awaiting presidential assent.   The Ranking structure for the Nigerian Forest Security Service . The NFSS is adopting quasi-military or paramilitary ranking structure...